"I'm a woman who was sexually assaulted. I don't want to have to speak to a male about this."
The university has trained female investigators available to you in order to make you more comfortable in discussing the situation.
"I was drinking alcohol in my residence hall at the time and don't want to get in trouble."
Your well-being is the university’s greatest concern. If you voluntarily report a sexual assault, the university will not discipline you for conduct violations which must be disclosed in the course of reporting the assault.
"I don't want to have my lifestyle put under a microscope."
Regardless of your lifestyle, the university will only be concerned with issues relevant to the assault and to protecting you and the campus community.